Showing posts with label kindness. Show all posts
Showing posts with label kindness. Show all posts

Monday, April 22, 2013

The Boston Marathon Tragedy


There is so much to say about the Boston Marathon. The world is both infuriated and heartbroken by such senseless acts of violence. These things become politicized. Politicians and interest groups use them to support their cause. Beneath all that though are humans. Yes, there are larger issues related to such occurrences and we can not overlook them. We divide ourselves because of religion or race or ethnicity or political views, but in the end we share a human experience. We all mourn terrorist acts that kill and injure so many people. 

In the video below John Greene speaks to this. The video isn't about politics or any agenda. It's about people. About our shared humanity and what it means to be an American.



In Mr. Greene's face, voice and body language I see the variety of emotions we all feel - anger, sadness, and frustration. I see him reminding himself and all of us that even when violence like this that we can not begin to wrap our minds around happens, good continues in the world

Monday, March 4, 2013

Do Not Mistake My Kindness for Weakness



Why do we often perceive kind people as weak or out of touch with reality?  We often think of them as naive and imagine that they must have had a life free of troubles because if they had experienced hardship in their lives then they wouldn't be kind.  I disagree.




Kindness isn't weak at all.  Kindness is strength.  



I once told a friend that I had decided to seek therapy for some depression and that I wasn't happy about doing so because it made me feel weak.  His response was that acknowledging that I needed help and taking steps to get help are signs of strength, not weakness.  I think he's right.  And I think the same is true of kindness.